OK

That's OK. I don't really care anymore what happened to that post. If you haven't read the trip blog for a while, check out my last post on there and say what you think about it.

Ika

Hello,
Well, that is very interesting. Is it possible that somebody deleted ikas post? That is not right. Everyone should have the opportunity to say what they want to say and it should be ok. Please be kind and be honest so we can resolve this. I think we need to take care of this before we can continue with the talk about the wedding.
Zuzana

Post?

Hi,

well, this is strange, I just wrote a post little while ago, and strangely it's gone. Does anyone know what happened to it? I know I posted it for sure, because I left the window open on the laptop, with the blog's main page, and it's on there. Now, few hours later it's gone. Has anyone deleted it? And if yes, why?

Ika

thoughts from Calhoun

Evka,

I am happy for both of you guys, I think it is very exciting to have another wedding on a horizon. We all know how our mom can (rather can't) handle situations such as weddings. She will get upset with most of the family, and I can't imagine how we will go on with our project in Nov. Not mentioning the investment we all are putting into it....
I hate to tell Evka what to do, because it is not my business, but I want to suggest to have the wedding after the trip. I would never suggest that, but I feel that the wedding will directly affect the November trip.
I attended last 3 weddings where mom was as well, and especially after what she did at Renata's wedding I am know it is not going to be smooth. There will be always something, that will create a huge blow out.
Eva and Cassey can do what they want, I will support them, I love and respect them, but at this point knowing more about the wedding, I don't see how we can plan the November trip if the wedding will take a place before the trip.
Another aspect, if the wedding wasn't in Dec or later, at least 3 people would have to pay for their visa (past Dec 2008 might not be visa needed for Czech tourists). Also Eva could get herself into a situation, that she will not have her papers in tact, and might not be able to go to Czech......

I guess, what I am saying is I want the wedding to be very special and happy day for Eva and Cassey. Also I want our mom to enjoy her 60th B-day. It is hard to compromise, but somehow we need to look for a solution together.

I want to encourage everyone to participate here and especially Evka and Cassey to share with us how they feel.

I hope to hear from you soon.

Have a great day.

Rene